Bad news

. We have problems now with 4 players !
Our computers: 3 fast enough Desktop computers 1 slow Laptop.
We start gaming and everything looks fine, then suddenly the laptop player cannot give any more commands! He can select the units but they don't do what he say. I think no more commands are send ( or received) by the server.
The game continues on all 4 computers without any error messages but the user can't play. ( pressing n on the server told us the client is still connected )
After a while the laptop decided to leave the game. Back in the menu still everything is fine ( and he is still marked as connected on the server )
but when he closes glest completly suddenly everything crashes ( on all 3 other computers!! ).
The errormessages we saw in the logfile are the following:
on the 2 remaining clients which showed no problems before we had something like this:
#2 Error connecting socket for IP: 172.20.100.101 for Port: 61357 err = -1 errno = 115 [Operation now in progress]EINPROGRESS in connect() - selecting
Apparent recovery for connection sock = 15, err = 1, errno = 0
Valid recovery for connection sock = 15, err = 1, errno = 0
#2 Error connecting socket for IP: 172.20.100.101 for Port: 61357 err = -1 errno = 115 [Operation now in progress]EINPROGRESS in connect() - selecting
server logfile was lost, because my son started glest again ....
laptop logfile:
#2 Error connecting socket for IP: 172.20.100.103 for Port: 61357 err = -1 errno = 115 [Operation now in progress]EINPROGRESS in connect() - selecting
Apparent recovery for connection sock = 11, err = 1, errno = 0
Valid recovery for connection sock = 11, err = 1, errno = 0
This happened two times!
Last successful test with 4 players was made by only 2 players both playing on 2 computrs simultaniosly, but when we play with 4 real players we get these problems.