Here's the game Coldfusionstorm is discussing (which I was hosting on atibox):
Description=Eight Rivers
MapFilterIndex=8
Map=eight_rivers
Tileset=desert2
TechTree=megapack
DefaultUnits=1
DefaultResources=1
DefaultVictoryConditions=1
FogOfWar=1
AdvancedIndex=0
AllowObservers=1
FlagTypes1=0
EnableObserverModeAtEndGame=1
AiAcceptSwitchTeamPercentChance=30
FallbackCpuMultiplier=5
PathFinderType=0
EnableServerControlledAI=1
NetworkFramePeriod=20
NetworkPauseGameForLaggedClients=0
FactionThisFactionIndex=5
FactionCount=8
NetworkAllowNativeLanguageTechtree=0
FactionControlForIndex0=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex0=20
FactionTeamForIndex0=0
FactionStartLocationForIndex0=0
FactionTypeNameForIndex0=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex0=AI1
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex0=
FactionControlForIndex1=5
ResourceMultiplierIndex1=5
FactionTeamForIndex1=8
FactionStartLocationForIndex1=1
FactionTypeNameForIndex1=*Observer*
FactionPlayerNameForIndex1=Coldfusionstorm
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex1=
FactionControlForIndex2=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex2=20
FactionTeamForIndex2=1
FactionStartLocationForIndex2=2
FactionTypeNameForIndex2=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex2=AI2
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex2=
FactionControlForIndex3=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex3=20
FactionTeamForIndex3=2
FactionStartLocationForIndex3=3
FactionTypeNameForIndex3=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex3=AI3
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex3=
FactionControlForIndex4=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex4=20
FactionTeamForIndex4=3
FactionStartLocationForIndex4=4
FactionTypeNameForIndex4=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex4=AI4
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex4=
FactionControlForIndex5=7
ResourceMultiplierIndex5=5
FactionTeamForIndex5=8
FactionStartLocationForIndex5=5
FactionTypeNameForIndex5=*Observer*
FactionPlayerNameForIndex5=tomr
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex5=
FactionControlForIndex6=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex6=20
FactionTeamForIndex6=4
FactionStartLocationForIndex6=6
FactionTypeNameForIndex6=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex6=AI5
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex6=
FactionControlForIndex7=4
ResourceMultiplierIndex7=20
FactionTeamForIndex7=5
FactionStartLocationForIndex7=7
FactionTypeNameForIndex7=persian
FactionPlayerNameForIndex7=AI6
FactionPlayerUUIDForIndex7=
(UUIDs removed)
This is the same setup I was using yesterday with Lyra. Coldfusionstorm has good hardware and a stable network link, though, so the 'n' view showed "1" for him constantly, i.e. he did not experience network or hardware / driver inflicted lag. What he did experience is decreasing graphics performance to an average of roughly 15% or 20% of his initial performance, even though he had the cameras focused on a mostly black spot of the map with no units in sight. So there should not have been much rendering work going on. He also experienced FPS drops which were severe.
My performance was ~ 55 FPS initially, dropping to ~30 FPS after the ~20 minutes we had the game running, with the lowest ever value around ~ 24 FPS. For me, the decrease was mostly constant.